Exchange of gifts

It is traditional in Dravidian Tantric Aaiyyanist practice for the Assinayyanal to give a gift to the Atankuyanal as they will perform the ritual and help bring them to orgasm and make them more resonantly attuned to the Tala or Loka space. This does not need to happen between two or more long term partners but it it usually encouraged. If the Assinayyanal is a stranger to Atankuyanal as it is at the many Dravidian Aaiyyanist Tantric festivals it is important to thank the Atankuyanal for allowing you to achieve orgasm and become more and more one with the Tala or Loka space.

The gift can be anything you want such as a small trinket, a cake, traditional Tamil sweets, or a nominal donation of monetary value. Remember always obey the laws in the land you operate in. In many countries this may be considered prostitution so gifting will not be allowed by draconian man-made laws. But in the Dravidian Aaiyyanist space this is allowed and one can gift the Atankuyanal depending on their level. If there are many Atankuyanals to one Assinayyanal, the Assinayyanal may gift a group present to the Atankuyanals such as a collection of sweets or a temple donation.

After the Assinayyanal has orgasmed, they then perform the ritual on the Atankuyanal, and after the Atankuyanal orgasms they will give a gift to the Assinayyanal - so there is always an exchange of gifts between all parties.

Giving a material gift to someone is also representative of the Tantric arts and represents us on the material plane of existence, the plane of pleasure and pain, power and wealth.